Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind, and love your neighbor as yourself. Luke 10:27
Here’s a scenario in our family. We come home and since we live in a high-rise apt in Seoul, we have to ride an elevator to our apt. My kids race to the elevator door to see who can enter first and push the 18th button. As soon as we arrive, they race out the door to see who unlocks the door first. The lock is computerized. If it’s bath night, they argue over who is taking a bath first. Meaning the first one in is the first one out and can play. Where did all this selfishness come from?
How can I teach them to put others first? I’ve used this verse before and try to have them put each other first. Very hard for little children to do! I guess sometimes it’s hard for adults as well. I hope that I can be an example for them. I need to watch that I’m not selfish with my time and put them and my husband before my activities and needs.
Last night we watched an old movie “Over the Hedge.” Some possum parents explain to their children that in order to live they must die. What a great concept! In order to live in God’s kingdom, we must die to our selfishness!
Dear Heavenly Father,
Please forgive me for when my self gets in the way. Help me to be a good example to my children. I pray that they will learn and understand how to put others first. Thank you for your great example of love and dying for others. Help me to die to selfishness.
In Jesus’ name,
Amen